How to let my bf fly to hong kong with me and work ?

Let him decide if he wants to move that far away. I know u both care about each other but this will be a true test in ur relationship if it's gonna be meant to be or not. don't force him. Let him figure this out on his own. Let him decide. U'll let him decide on his own thats how ur gonna do it. Otherwise if he feels that ur making him or deciding for him he's gonna resent u for the rest of ur lives. Don't be pushy about it. Tell him if ur actually goin to Hong Kong tell him the date and time ur flight is and than he can decide and talk to his parents about it and than if he decides to go than he will. If he don't go don't hold it against him at all. Just let things work out on their own.